Get Him Back When YOU Are Ready

Today I want to talk about something that I have a feeling some of you won’t be comfortable with.  Many of you are here because you want to know how to get him back.  Something has happened that has caused a great divide and you are either on a break, separated, or flat out broken up.  You may even be in the process of a divorce.

Whatever you are going through, I am so very sorry for your heart break.  Right now you have been faced with the cold hard realization that something didn’t turn out the way that you thought it would, and you are heartbroken over that.  All you can think about is getting him back, so that it can all be right again.

Today, I am going to try and straighten your perspective on that in a way that will benefit your relationship now, or any relationship in your future.

The first thing you need to do is figure out, with 100% honesty, what you are heartbroken over

Are you REALLY heartbroken over losing him? Or are you heartbroken over losing the stability and safety of a relationship?  You will not be able to answer this question without some cold, hard soul searching.  So give it some time.

Truly think about what you miss.  Do you miss waking up next to this amazing person every morning and their daily “good morning sunshine!”.  Or do you miss having someone that is able to get your oil changed, or pick up your dry cleaning, or bring by dinner when you are too tired to cook?

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