Relationship Problems – Is There An Unpardonable Sin?

Anyone that has ever been in a relationship of any kind knows that every relationship has problems.  That is, anyone that has any degree of intelligence.  It takes a really not so smart person to think you can sail through all of your relationships problem free.  That doesn’t happen. Not even on sitcoms and romance movies because their very plot lines center around effective problem resolution.  See? Even the greatest love story of all time caught on film would not be what it was today if it didn’t have fundamental relationship problems that propelled the story line.

Yours are going to be the same, unless you go into your relationships naively thinking there will never be a problem.  In fact, if you have a history of problem free relationships, you are doing something wrong.   Solving problems together with someone is part of what makes the best relationships work for decades at a time.

No two people are the same, and even two people that are extraordinarily similar can not live in the same house for a month without there being SOMETHING. 

That’s what makes humans so awesome.  We are all so different. 

Yes, it creates conflict, tension, and drama sometimes, but you will learn as you grow in your relationships that it is how you handle them that really counts.  Whether those relationships are with your parents, your sisters, your brothers, your peers, your friends, your employers, your employees, and even your lovers, you will have a problem at some point along the way.  When you look at your most successful relationships in those groups, you know that handling problems together rationally is probably what has held you and that person together for this amount of time.

So that being said, let’s get to today’s topic.  Relationship problems.  I’ve also asked, is there any unpardonable sin?

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